Wash Okra well and towel dry completely, so that it doesn't become slimy on chopping.
trim the ends of the okra. Slit vertically into half and then chop finely.
Heat peanut or coconut oil in a wide pan
when the oil is hot, saute chopped okra on medium to high flame for about 5 mins till the rawness goes away but the okra should not wilt or become soggy and the color stays vibrant
season with salt. switch off and let cool
grind coconut and green chilli with some water to a smooth paste
Whisk yogurt to be smooth. pour the paste into the yogurt and also season with salt, mix well.
heat coconut oil in a small seasoning kadai or ladle
when oil is hot, add mustard seeds. when they splutter, add cumin seeds followed quickly by torn red chillies, curry leaves and hing.
Turn off the flame when the red chillies plump up.